flowerais:

Things that take time & many tries to get right:

• learning to be a good friend/partner
• healing from depression, failures or heartbreak
• becoming amazing at an art or skill
• overcoming anxiety, insecurities and low body image
• overcoming the need to isolate yourself
• changing self-hating thoughts to kinder ones
• making a real connection with someone
• overcoming self-defeating and self-sabotaging thoughts
• learning how to study effectively
• finding a sense of stability and calmness at your core
• quitting habits or addictions
• leaving people and behaviours that turn you into the worst version of yourself
• getting used to healthier coping mechanisms & mindsets that feel fake
• treating yourself like you truly care about yourself
• becoming the person you always wanted to be

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theambitiouswoman:

A lot of times you don’t realize how attainable the things you want can be because you are stuck in an environment that is not cohesive to those results. And that is not your fault. But it does not change the fact that the reality is exists. Placing yourself in the right environment will open you up to new opportunities and a new way of thinking. This should be your goal. Nothing you want is out of reach. But if you do not decide to make changes, nothing is going to change.

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disc80s:

disc80s:

i thought my suicidal late teens were the hardest years of my life but nothing could’ve prepared me for my 20s waking up everyday with no purpose, feeling so lost, unable to keep up with friendships, watching everyone move on with relationships and careers and being unable to catch up. and I’m such a “life is not a race” type of person but damn I’m losing so hard rn

seeing this resonating with so many of you is actually kinda comforting. here’s a hopeful quote from Tennessee Williams “Something in me will save me from utter ruin no matter what comes.”

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sokkalore:

while y’all are advocating for a ceasefire - and you should be - we need to keep centered that while a ceasefire is necessary to stop the current genocidal attacks and get the food, water and medical supplies that palestinians urgently need to them as soon as possible, we CANNOT stop there.

a ceasefire is an important step that MUST happen but we cannot let it be the end. the world cannot turn away. because as soon as we do, israel will restart their genocidal campaign. a ceasefire is step one, but we MUST end the occupation. palestine MUST be free. there is no other option.

so please do continue to advocate for ceasefire, to protest and call your representatives demanding that they support it, but if it happens, do not become complacent. we cannot stop until the occupation ends and palestine is free.

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smiles-advice:

there is no such thing as being “behind in life” but it’s okay to recognise that you missed out on some things whilst you were busy surviving

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cultca1ne:

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